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#5400 - 04/06/08 01:07 PM
Stealth Pumping
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smitty
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Does anyone else (other than me) pump on the down-low, because they don't want the wifey to know? I've been pumping for several years, and I hide all my equipment because I don't want to hear my wife's mouth. I don't have erection problems. I pump secondly, because it feels good. Mainly because I'm trying to enlarge my penis, and I don't want to hear the typical "you're big enough for me" schpeel.
If you pump in the open, tell me how you introduced your mate, male or female, to your pumping activity. Did you start by saying, "I want to buy a pump and I want you to be involved." Or did you pump in secret for awhile, and then decided you were tired of hiding, and told your mate what you were doing, and wanted her/him to be involved?
I'm asking because I'm tired of being in the closet as to my pleasures, and my quest for a larger dick. I want my wife to be involved in my quest. However, I don't want her to become insecure, and think I'm trying to get bigger to impress other women.
I know there are people on both sides of this issue, and I'd like to hear from everyone. It would help me make an informed decision.
Smitty.
P.S. I know there are several women on this site, and I would love to hear from you also. I need to hear things from a woman's perspective, so I can know were my wife is coming from.
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#5401 - 04/06/08 09:50 PM
Re: Stealth Pumping
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georgegez
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Hey Smitty!! I kind of know what you are going threw!! never told anyone!! but next time I will if there is a next time!! It would be nice to share a experience!! With some one you cared for!! Yey who am I to say but next time if there is one, I would like to share that with someone!! Because it is me!! Hey Just trying to give advice!! And that can be wrong!! To each there own!! and in there own time!! Do What you feel in your heart and soul!! Do what you feel is right!! Because IT IS NO ONE'S ADVICE It is yours!! :)Hey No one I've ever been with know I Pump!! Maybe next time I will tell!!
Edited by georgegez (04/06/08 11:06 PM)
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#5405 - 04/07/08 12:24 AM
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fubar
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The wife called home one night and asked what I was doing. I said I was pumping my dick in a $140 penis pump.
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#5409 - 04/07/08 01:01 AM
Re: Stealth Pumping
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georgegez
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Maybe we should all do that!!!
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#5410 - 04/07/08 01:04 AM
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fubar
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Nah. My wife will just tell your wife.
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#5422 - 04/09/08 01:03 PM
Re: Stealth Pumping
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FreeGal
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Ok Smiity.. even though I've just turned 59, I'm still a woman and a horny, sexual one at that. Sooooo.. if you want the perspective of how a woman may feel, Well that is a hard one. Many women think it is "sick" for a guy to pump. When I've discussed it with many of the groups I work with, the sickness is not with guy but with the woman. So many of them over the age of 40 think guys who pump are not satisfied with the woman.. How stupid. It is the same when trying to discuss what it is like to be a woman who pumps. For me, the first issue is the pleasure it brings me. I've never been so hot, horny and ready since I started to pump. My nipples get so sensitive, as does my clit, if they could talk it would be words of begging to be used and abused!!! Second I enjoy the stimulation the pumping brings on when with a partner. I will confess, I am a closet pumper with my regular partner.. he is too "vanilla" to understand. Yet, he enjoys the way my nipples are extended when I have pumped and how it feels to have my swollen pussy engulf his cock, no questions ask as to why. With the couple "play mates" I have, it is part of our fun foreplay time, them using the pumps on me. I can see the issue from a man's point of view. First thing anyone thinks is that the pumping is due to a small cock, not having the faintest idea what it actually feels like. Each man should know the feelings of any sexual act or play and how their partners feel. Some men only have to bring up the subject of anal sex, only to be shut down completely, being called, pervert, sicko, etc. Pumping can come across the same way with many women.. if you know your partner, you know how to bring it up. Perhaps talk about the stimulation that comes from pumping, having a "snake bite kit" ready to offer her. A cheap way to introduce her just how it can feel, starting with them on her nipples. These are just my thoughts.Good Luck.
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#5438 - 04/20/08 06:56 PM
Re: Stealth Pumping
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drpumper
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My wife knows I pump and she is the one who ordered my pump from JN. I had been for about 3 years trying to talk her into letting me get one. Then one night she said let’s see what this thing is about. Went to Newart.com and in fifteen minutes she was nude playing with her pussy and looking at pictures. Couldn’t get her to let go of the mouse. She picked out the tube size, I wanted a 2.25” cylinder, she ordered me 2.5”. Rest is history and I have been pumping for over two years now. Found out after I started pumping my wife is a sizequeen and like my cock thick.
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#6132 - 07/07/10 07:55 AM
Re: Stealth Pumping
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BCL
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Does anyone else (other than me) pump on the down-low............ Well as i said before we do it together and we enjoy it very much. She is my second wife and i was already pumping when i met her. She is naturally sexual and gets turned on easily. She was playing with my cock one evening after we made love ..very early in our relationship..i think i asked her if the "Johnny" performed well enough and on saying yes i said it must be because of my "exercises". Her curiosity and me showing her the "exercise" did the rest. Hope i am not forward here but maybe having her know and be free to do it will also help psychologically in your positive thinking on getting and reaching your goals. What about saying to her it is also important to keep "Johnny" healthy etc. Cheers
Edited by BCL (07/07/10 07:55 AM)
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